Overcome setbacks, do not give up! Turn a setback into a comeback. — Who I am and the setbacks

“We can have many setbacks, and set ourselves back, to who we are, despite the setbacks. “- Jiska Hachmer

You can have setbacks

  • disabilities
  • diseases
  • moments in life
  • the things people do wrong in the environment
  • or lacks in the environment
  • crimes in the government and at work

I could be set back, it is what does happen. — The body has limits and I am disabled.

Everyone can feel happy, because of the gifts they do have:

  • Talents
  • Lucky with the environment or people they live with
  • Having adjustments, and solutions
  • Having dreams come true, despite their handicaps. Or had dreams come true before they got handicaps.
  • Having kids and family.
  • Having friends, online and in real life.
  • Having a good job, despite all adjustments, changes, unique solutions.
  • Being your authentic and true self.
  • Be autonomous, in the ways you can be autonomous. Including getting the true adjustments needed, and still, count.

The core of feeling good despite all is, I think:

  • your wondering
  • your questioning
  • you finding answers to those questions
  • and you using the found information in a job or hobby
  • you sharing the found information

You will always have your preferences, adjustments and will just find the best ways for you!

These physical illnesses can setback, also the criminals that want to exploit the disabled.

  • Chronique fatigue makes me exhausted and a lot of the time. It is torture to force people with exhaustion. It is torture to neglect anyone and pretend all are not ill, are never ill, and never have personal issues physically. As if the illness cannot be real, cannot exist, it does, so it will setback. Also, every day. It is not a made-up disease, it actually makes you exhausted all the time.
  • Fibromyalgia, before the definition was made, my physiotherapists already noted I miss veins in my arms to my hands. I came from a very busy life and a life full of sports on a higher level, as I was planned on going to ballet high school, and had auditions since I was 8 for that. I was in classes for older children already, on higher levels, and planned to be a ballerina. Then, at a point, I quit, because the high school was far away and it meant I had to live there, so I changed my “career”, became a singer, wanted to dance, act, sing, and song write. Also, wanted to become a music manager, so studied management. Still at another point, not that long after, while I was very successful and only performing, planned to be a karaoke host on cruise ships and in theme parks, and not have a bookkeeping job on the side in the future, but totally work in music, and performing, I couldn't do as much as everyone else. Every audition I noted already my body was not as strong. I seemed to not change from teen strength to mature strength. Then, suddenly I couldn't even do my jobs anymore, and my physiotherapists noted things like missing veins, and the rheumatologist diagnosed me with rheumatics, Fibromyalgia, as it was then a rheumatics, later on, explained as missing veins and rheumatics. All other things were excluded, and the science of that time showed I have this, also it was clear in my case why. People seem to change the ideas a lot in “science”, or do not process all information, or do not place all information best and have different ideas of the disease. Or continue the study to make it more complete. But in my case, it is clear that, and missing veins, which is in a lot of research the cause. So, there might be different diseases in the end, or the same outcome and different causes. For me, it's clear I have it, and “control” it, in a way like my pelvic instability, accept the true “balance”. What is the time I do all without pain and problems, and what is the rest needed and take that rest. Understand the disease and constantly listen to my body and do what is needed. This is the same trick that keeps me out of a wheelchair, for my pelvic instability. I do have limits, but I listen to them, so I don't damage myself any further and rest and create the best time when I can move. This does not exhaust the body, which would otherwise let me end up in the wheelchair constantly.
  • Pelvic Instability, I got this since my pregnancies, early labor, and bedrest of 6 months. Over time the pelvic disability became severe and we could not solve it, I was pregnant and had to rest. So, I had lots of medicines during that pregnancy to not feel the pain as much, in the end, my child was taken out because it was damaging my body too much to keep her in. I was wheelchaired another year after. I never truly recovered but had the best doctors, revalidation in the hospital and with physiotherapists at home, later on, so I got out of the wheelchair.” The balance” is the trick, besides all the therapies. Also, not have a wheelchair, but to just let me be limited, so, I do not further damage my body. So, I truly listen and make the body strong by moving myself, and by resting on time, and also laying on the sides 20 minutes, each side, and every time. And keep changing sides whenever I sleep, rest, etc. Also, any person should not sit longer than 4 hours per day. So, I learned to lay and walk/ move, and stand, instead of sitting, and constantly when I sat, lay again, and move again.

I also had more setbacks during these disabilities, I was amongst others physically abused by a doctor in the new region, for that insurance.

Crime at work “sets back”

Life is about being who you are and simply do that.

I will become an MD/psychologist, besides all I love to do

I come from an environment that was very well with the disabled, and people in general.

We could do even better compared to other countries around the world, and think better.

  • So, I had a better environment and time in the country, locally a better region, better at sciences, human rights, ethics, academic skills, and SEL, also working with more honor, higher literacy, and good examples, so a lower crime rate at work.
  • Also, a better time in our country. Everyone was better with children, at that time. They had found how previous generations were raised unethically, also without children’s rights, so, in our time everything was changed to these better ideas and sciences.
  • The same good USA curriculum we need. With the same science proving why this is the best curriculum. Also, how to teach that?
  • And how to teach it freely, doing the correct interpretation of human rights, and providing all options. So, all children can choose themselves how to learn, and on what topics.
  • Where they over time do the correct curriculum for the jobs. So, also from the best moment in their lives. Always without forces, interferences, and influences. Always finding the natural functioning and doing the human rights.
  • Creating a higher GPA. This includes stopping the force to school and making education free with all options. Also, stopping the force to choose, and too early, on what job one wants to do.
  • The Dutch could create even more options for degrees, so everyone has a bachelor’s, master’s, post-graduate degree, and P.h.D degrees.
  • Then, the Dutch will share all their knowledge, and even more over time, in even more ways, and even better, as all get better over time. Also, when they get even more people with degrees to the highest levels and with even higher GPA, the input is even better and even processed even better, also that results in creating even better environments, and leads to even better outcomes.
  • Then, it leads to even a better new input and processing and output, and a continuous process of even more good input to process, and creating even more and better output. Because everyone’s output will be other people’s input, and this gets also only even better.
(Stanford Medicine, 2014)

So, we can change our schooling, to no forces, no interference, no influencing, just truly the correct curriculum before one will work.

What can the first kid do? How can they join?

  • What can the smartest do sooner than other kids? We can research who is the fastest? We can research and find what are the possible things kids can do already. We can find what is the average, and what is the latest possibility. Also, what could be a preference, or what could be their physical and mental development. This must be the absolute truth, to not have frauds, criminals, lies, twists, misuse, abuse, etc. As people can abuse children because they are born depending.
  • How can the children join? All kids have the right to join, how do we create everything for kids to join? Including without being unethical, or having just opinions, which would be violating human rights, ethics, and note be the complete sciences knowledge, it would be untrue. So, how do we make it true, correct, and free?

Yes, the best can change things. — The entire world can grow and get even better.

  • They could create even more options for degrees, so everyone has a bachelor's, master's, post-graduate degree, and P.h.D degrees.
  • They could even create an even better GPA, even more people with the even better curriculum in those programs, leads to even higher grades, thus higher GPA.
  • They will share all their knowledge, and even more over time, in even more ways, and even better, as all get better over time. Also, when they get even more people with degrees to the highest levels and with even higher GPA, the input is even better and even processed even better, also that results in creating even better environments, and leads to even better outcomes.
  • Then, it leads to even a better new input and processing and output, and a continuous process of even more good input to process, and creating even more and better output. Because everyone’s output will be other people’s input, and this gets also only even better.

So, yes all have ways to get better and better.

Also, so we can place every person, and country in the total.

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