Who s death in your family is most disturbing?
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Who s death in your family is most disturbing?
Disturbing how one died? Or unknown causes? My cousin, later on, she turned out to be my cousin, she was one of my best friends and was shot to death, that was most disturbing.
My grandma’s death was changing the most in my family, and the way she died was not the way it had to be. She wanted to die with God and not by raising medicine and to let her die. So, that could be very disturbing. One taking her life, selfish, without asking the family, and deciding one day to ask the doctors to raise it, with the knowledge of her death to come, as it was seen on other old people dying, it had worked before as some wanted to die, but it is named murder if you give a certain medicine to let them die, so raising the existing medicine that leads to death was not named murder at that time, so that person chooses to take grandma her life that way, but our entire life grandma wanted to die when it was her time, and God chooses it. She would not want to die that way.
But my best friend shot to death was even more disturbing. She was on her birthday with other friends out, and we all could have been there, she had many friends. She picked up her jacket and got shot to death. The bullet went through the door. All dutch doors in clubs are changed, since her death, so it never happens again. But it was the most disturbing time. The word is precise for that too. It disturbed our lives a lot. Of all of us. We had extremely happy lives together, and suddenly we had to live that as teens.
So, it changed everything. And that year a lot of people died. Also another classmate, and parents of friends, and some more people we knew. And soon after our shared other best friend. It was a disturbing time.
And we all did get out of this, I think all of us, but it was totally disturbing.