What would you change about how you are raised?
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What would you change about how you are raised?
That rare ones throughout the family are not good people. Rare, but has to be never. I know my DNA we have an extremely good family. That feeling you only know when you have it. That is sad too. It is hard to see sad, as in sad and bad people. That makes that good childhood tough. Bad parents were not even a part of a childhood in my time. We had a childhood. We had our home, private, or for kids and parents. So, we could go our ways in the home, we had a home for families. All people were a member of the home, with their own lives, and shared lives. And we had a good society. A golden one, or diamond one or whatever you would name it. But we feel it. And the best is, our grandparents felt that good between the wars too. Their parents too, their grandparents too. It made wars a harder cry, but better to overcome. They knew the secret of being really really good to each other. Respect so high, and all in deep love, crying when they see you, crying when they leave you. And crying when they remember their parents. Loving their oldest grandparents they could remember too and all before. And its sweet to me to know now who those were. We can see it in DNA. All those people they talked about. They loved so deeply. So deeply that we can feel so deeply too.
The rare ones, we never ever understood and tried to understand. So, I would keep seeking for them to solve this, they all should feel the same. I don't know who worked so hard on some rare ones, to abuse them so hard, they cant feel it.
I do know my grandparents and all before could have said just the same.
How could you be bad to your grandma or other members? They always first as kids wondered the same and asked their parents and grandparents. All kids go through the same those said, we wondered too. How come we all don't fight? Just never? We would die, if we would they said. And all knew that. But we also truly love, there is no logic in fights. We share everything.
We live for our kids, else they die. The entire family lives also for you. They lived for me, I live for you, they all live for you. That they said. I said the same to my kids. Also, knowing all said the same things to their kids. Centuries long. So long I can even understand. They had this game to remember the grandparents. The far as they could, who would win. All the names, some had many. And they had many brothers and sisters.
You would have had a deep smart mind and heart knowing the farthest member. Only a smart mind can. And you had to have luck, to be old enough, to know the most of them, and to be able to ask over and over again, so you could train these names in your mind. And to keep them with you during life. They knew they had the duty to tell you who they all were. They had not many papers. It was all learned by heart. All in life came from the heart and was kept in the books of the mind.
I would change this back to everyone. So, we understand at a point what this means. That deep love is humanity. It is my family. It is my heart and mind and soul. And it came from them.
I would also try to change the less smart into smarter, so they would be on time to see what grandparents like mine say. All need some time with them, to remember all words. To feel the feelings. Some just can't, yet.
It was a task to all kids, and to all family members, but you must live long enough to sense its not a task, task. But a task, a pride, a feel, the family, to keep something good alive. We live only through their love.
If you cant sense that, you damage others. You need to get to that deep point in life, to understand this deepness.