Everyone has goals.
You must do them well.
You just need to work on you, and your personal development. Put your kids first Ruggiero et al, N.D.), and help them express themselves, and their will and to let them develop themselves. And to have attention to your home, which you share with them.
And when they are not here yet, just remind you, that is yet, they will come. You will have a life in that home. You can create a life with own kids in your home. And it needs to be the best. The best…